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Normal Stress Reactions During War

War radically changes our lives as we face loss, danger, destruction, uncertainty, and constant stress.

 

Everything we feel and think right now is normal as our nervous system fights for survival in response to the danger of war. Our symptoms signal stress, not weakness.
 

Emotions

  • Constant worry/fear about loved ones on the front line or children’s well-being

  • Mood changes, irritability, angry outbursts or tears for no reason

  • Guilt or shame about being unable to protect each other from harm

  • Feelings of being overwhelmed, helplessness or despair

  • Numbness, indifference, or emotional “freezing”

  • Disappointment with outside help

  • Some find strength they didn’t know they had

  • Feelings of pain, love and gratitude can be felt more intensely right now

Body

  • Jumpy or sinking feeling with the sound of sirens, explosions, etc.

  • Numb or detached feelings (a protection from overload)

  • Constant fatigue or exhaustion, weakness or tremors

  • Insomnia or excessive sleepiness

  • Appetite changes 

  • Tension in back, shoulders, neck or other muscles

  • Chest or throat tightness; breathing changes; rapid heart-rate

  • Frequent headaches, upset stomach or other stuck body symptoms 

Mind

  • Confusion, doubts, loss of trust, hopelessness

  • Difficulty concentrating, remembering things or making decisions

  • Recurring images, thoughts or nightmares

  • Feeling that circumstances or events are unreal

  • Confusion about what to do; whether to leave or stay, etc.

  • Self-criticism or comparison with others

Spiritual

  • Some develop a much deeper faith

  • Others feel that God has abandoned them

  • Some feel life has become meaningless

  • Others have an increased sense of meaning as they take up helping roles

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Prepared by:
Lyudmila Pasichnyk, a mother, and psychologist living in Ukraine during the war.
Nataliya Khoroshykh, a therapist in Ukraine committed to living out of love, not fear. 
Kathy Nussbaum, an international Brainspotting trauma therapist living in the US 

 
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